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Making a “Bucket List” seems to be all the rage these days. For the uninitiated, the term refers to an arbitrary list of (occasionally outrageous) goals one wishes to achieve before “kicking the bucket”.

And every time I read an article on this concept, it makes me uncomfortable. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for having hopes and dreams, but the idea of having a set list of things to achieve prior to dying has never sat well with me. I know from experience that life can be very unpredictable, and setting a series of highly ambitious, possibly unattainable goals (fly into space? climb Mount Everest?) might end up doing one’s self-esteem more harm than good.

That’s not to say that I haven’t had some wonderful adventures in my life! They might seem simple and low key compared to those of folks who have traveled extensively, but I’m incredibly grateful for them nonetheless.

So I thought I’d make a retrospective bucket list – I’m still very much alive, and delighted to have already experienced the following…

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1. I’ve been madly in love with the same handsome man for thirty years. And he still loves me. Perhaps this is our greatest life achievement, because love isn’t the result of luck or circumstance, but of constant effort and adjustment and giving. We’ve had our share of hiccups along the way, but thankfully they’ve strengthened our relationship rather than weakened it.

After all this time, I’m so happy that my husband still looks at me like this…

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2. We’ve had two wonderful sons, both of whom are loving and interesting and kind. When I watch the gentle but non-indulgent way Big Boy treats his girlfriend, I can see how much he’s learnt from observing his father. And that makes me so happy that I could cry. Having children isn’t a part of everyone’s life plan, nor should it be, but I’m incredibly grateful to have had the opportunity to be a mother.

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3. I’ve lived in the future! I grew up a dedicated science fiction fan, and desperately wanted to still be alive at a time when doors would open automatically like they did on Star Trek, and we could talk to loved ones face to face on the phone like Jane Jetson.  Today, my phone will tell me how to drive to another city, and I can point it at the night sky and know the names of the constellations.  Maybe one day we really will be able to teleport from one place to another.

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4. I’ve eaten fresh asparagus within seconds of picking it. I have held a warm hen’s egg, seconds after it was laid. I’ve known the joy of sowing seeds, watching them grow, then harvesting and eating the produce. All experiences which might have been commonplace a century ago, but are now rare and precious in our modern city lives.

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5. I’ve tasted some of the finest wines in the world, from Chateau Margaux to Romanee Conti to vintage Krug champagne. I’ve sipped a 120 year old Madeira. I’ve drunk Grange Hermitage and Chateau Lafite with pizza (granted, it was very good pizza).

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6. We’ve collected a mantlepiece worth of fossils, each one a reminder of how short and transient our time on this earth is. Holding a 240 million year old ammonite or the tooth of a woolly mammoth is both awe-inspiring and humbling, at the same time.

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7. We have TYFs – thirty-year friends – whom we’ve been close to for our entire adult lives. Some of them live in our suburb.  These friends occupy a special place in my heart – when I’m with them, there’s no need for pretense or niceties, sometimes not even conversation. I’ve shed many tears with all of them – both in laughter and in sadness.

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8. I’ve enjoyed some of the “finer” aspects of life –  I’ve stayed in the penthouse of one five star hotel, and the presidential suite of another. I’ve eaten at more hatted restaurants than I care to count. And you know what? It’s all very nice, but it’s overrated. If I never experienced any of those things again, I honestly wouldn’t mind.

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9. I’ve spent many days sitting in a paediatric oncology clinic, surrounded by sick children and their parents. It certainly wasn’t something I did by choice, but it was humbling and inspiring and perspective-altering and heartbreaking and above all, a great honour to spend time in the presence of such great dedication and courage.

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10. I’ve known the joy and satisfaction that comes from making things with my hands. I’ve learnt to cook, taught myself to sew, designed and crafted jewellery and planted a garden. My wise friend Di once told me that her father always said a bricklayer had the most satisfying of jobs, because at the end of each day, he could look at the wall he’d built and see what he’d created with his own hands. I completely understand that.

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Tell me, what’s on your retrospective bucket list? What experiences are you grateful for having had during your lifetime, and why?

In my kitchen…

…are hot cross buns. This year, I made both yeasted and sourdough versions…

In my kitchen…

…is Mrs M’s old salt holder, filled with Maldon Sea Salt Flakes…

In my kitchen…

…is also my latest discovery – Olsson’s Pure Sea Salt.  Bread baking needs quite a lot of salt, and the brand I was using had been discontinued, so I was overjoyed when Pierre from Pepe Saya Butter put me onto Olsson’s. Not only is it made in Australia and completely additive-free, but it also costs under $2 a kilo!

For some reason, it’s not readily available in the large supermarkets, but it can be bought (somewhat surprisingly) in Chinese supermarkets and at Southern Cross Supplies

The medium grained cooking salt is perfect for our kitchen, but there are rock and fine table salts available as well…

In my kitchen…

…are yet more tromboncinos, zucchini, chillies and snake beans from our garden…

In my kitchen…

…are recent purchases from Lario International, where my friend Tania works.  The truffled anchovies (on the left) are quite nice and make a lovely addition to pizza.

Garum (on the right) is a fermented fish sauce which has been around for centuries – it was used as a condiment in Ancient Rome and Greece.  It’s incredibly potent and salty – not for the faint-hearted, nor the hypertensive.  Even I struggled with it (and I’m pretty good with fish guts), but Pete took one whiff and suggested we use it to chum the sea.  Having said all that, I was absolutely thrilled to have had the opportunity to try it…

In my kitchen…

…was a large sourdough bake from a couple of weeks ago – the rolls were made with a mix of bakers and Type 00 flour, and the loaves with Italian Buratto flour (post to follow)…

The following week, I made these rolls by shaping sourdough into balls and dipping them into a bowl of poppy seeds, before stamping them firmly. They were delicious, but there are now little black seeds in every nook and cranny of my kitchen…

In my kitchen…

…is a batch of gluten-free chestnut brownies, baked for my young friend Anni.  I met her at the bus stop to deliver them…

In my kitchen…

…is a gorgeous gift from Emilie at The Clever Carrot! I’ve been longing for a set of Anthropologie measuring spoons ever since reading about them on Smidge’s blog a couple of years ago, and let out a loud squeal of delight when I opened Em’s generous gift…

On Easter Sunday, I used the measuring spoons when I was making these tiger cakes

In my kitchen…

…is my latest breakfast pick-me-up – a chocolate shot made with 70% dark chocolate and boiling water, whizzed together. It keeps me going all morning!

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Tell me, what’s happening in your kitchen this month?

If you’d like to do an In My Kitchen post on your own blog, please feel free  to do so. We’d love to see what’s happening in your kitchen this month!  Please link back to this blog, and let us know when your post is up, and we’ll add it to our monthly listing.

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Here are this month’s posts…

Catherine @ Cate’s Cates (first IMK post!)

Vaishali @ Holy Cow Vegan (first IMK post!)

Christine @ Food Wine Travel

Sandy @ Vegans Eat Yummy Food Too!

Liz @ Bizzy Lizzy’s Good Things

Lara @ A Life on a Plate

JJ @ 84th & 3rd

Sally @ Bewitching Kitchen

Zirkie @ Pink Polka Dot Food

Becca @ The InTolerant Chef

Sue @ Sous Chef

Nupur @ One Hot Stove (first IMK post!)

Jane @ The Shady Baker

Kari @ Bite-Sized Thoughts

Johanna @ Green Gourmet Giraffe

Emilie @ The Clever Carrot

Ella @ Mulberry and Pomegranate

Claire @ Claire K Creations

Judy @ Savoring Today (first IMK post!)

Misky @ Misk Cooks (she’s renovating her kitchen!)

Anne @ Life in Mud Spattered Boots

Roz @ Taste Travel

Mandy @ The Complete Cookbook

Tania @ My Kitchen Stories

Lisa @ Gourmet Wog (first IMK post!)

Pat @ A Yorkshire Cook

Tandy @ Lavender and Lime

Happy Easter!

I hope you’ve all had a lovely couple of weeks!

We’ve been enjoying a little downtime – so much so that we didn’t get around to Easter chocolate making until just a couple of days ago.  We’ve made up for it with a fairly manic (but very enjoyable) twenty-four hours in the kitchen, during which time we tempered over two kilos of dark, milk and white Callebaut chocolate.

This year, we tinted white chocolate with regular food colouring, and made these tri-coloured eggs.  The large one below has a dark chocolate base, while the small one is a milk blend…

The white chocolate was tempered first and a portion was piped into the moulds. The remainder was tinted with red food colouring, and then piped over white. Once both layers had set, the moulds were filled with tempered dark or milk chocolate…

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A large handful of Pailleté Feuilletine was combined with our dark milk blend (50/50 Callebaut 811 54% and 823 Milk) to create crunchy “Kit Kat” chocolate eggs…

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Excess chocolate from each batch was used to make Easter lollipops (always popular with the littlies)…

And it wouldn’t be Easter without our nesting hens…

Our chocolate moulds were all purchased from Candyland Crafts – this is now the third year in a row we’ve used most of these, and they’re still in great shape. Not bad for $2 plastic moulds!

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Finally, we tried making roasted almond eggs this year, and began by toasting almond slivers tossed in Kirsch and icing sugar in the oven…

The cooled almonds were stirred into a large batch of dark tempered chocolate (blend of Callebaut 811 54% and Sao Thome origin 70%), and then ladled into egg moulds.  The two halves were joined with bulldog clips before rotating and shaking…

We were very chuffed with the glossy eggs that popped out of the moulds…

They were a little uneven, but delicious nonetheless!

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So…has anything exciting been happening?  Having a couple of weeks off the blog is like being on school holidays, and now that I’m back, I want to catch up with everyone. Hope you’ve all been well – I’ve missed chatting to you!

Wishing you all a relaxing, family-filled, happy and holy Easter! ♥

I’ll be playing Pooh sticks on our pond bridge…

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I’m taking a short blog break, folks.

It’s a hectic (but fun) time of the year and we’re busy with family and friends.  We’re not going anywhere, so I’ll still be checking comments, and updating the IMK listing, but there won’t be any new posts in the week or so.

Take care, and I’ll see you all at Easter! ♥

As I mentioned three years ago, we didn’t start on our make it, grow it, source it path with the intention of saving money.  Our  goal then, as it is now, was simply to eat and live better.

But it is absolutely without question that we have saved an enormous amount of money in the process, with our food costs still about half of what they used to be, even allowing for the improved quality of ingredients we now buy compared to three years ago.

Sometimes it’s good to stop and take stock.  Here are some of the items that have made a significant impact on our balance sheet…

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Meat

I have two highly carnivorous sons – Small Man is now a strapping sixteen year old and Big Boy will be twenty-one this year. And whilst Big Boy has finished his growth spurts, Small Man is currently an eating machine.  One night last week, he ate two pizzas and most of a chicken for dinner.

We now buy most of our meat from Haverick Meats in Banksmeadow. I first discovered them through Lorraine’s blogpost, and subsequently wrote about them here.  They supply a large number of Sydney’s fine dining establishments, and are open to the public on Saturdays only.  We still buy value added meats (schnitzels, marinated free range chickens, sausages) from our local butcher, but for all our bulk meats, it’s impossible to beat the quality and pricing offered at Havericks.

Here’s a good example of why the system works. Haverick Meats sell pre-sliced grassfed eye fillet to the restaurant trade – the pieces are cut to 200g each. The tail of the fillets are too narrow to use for these cuts, and are therefore sold off at their Saturday store – for just $20/kg.  I’ve seen exactly the same meat retailing online for over $70/kg. A one kilo tray is ample for two dinners at our place, and we end up paying just $2.50 per person for absolutely amazing beef.

On our last visit, we also came home with a 5.8kg grassfed rump, which we cut, trimmed and minced. The resultant homemade mince filled nine 500g freezer bags, costing us just $6.45 per meal.  We started mincing our own meat as a way to ensure quality, and whilst it’s not a real saving over prepared mince, it’s certainly far better than anything we could buy for the price.

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Groceries

These days, we only go to the supermarket once every five or six weeks. And that’s to stock up on bulk staples – cereal, butter, sugar and so forth. We continue to buy UHT milk at Aldi – no-one here drinks milk by the glass, so we buy it for breakfast cereals, tea and yoghurt making.

Breaking the “twice a week visit to the supermarket” loop has saved us both time and money. More significantly, it means that we now have almost no highly processed foods in our daily diets.  It’s interesting to look back and see the insidious damage regular supermarket shopping did to our budget – we would always come back with “treats” or other impulse buys that we didn’t need, and it was nearly impossible to pop into the store without spending at least $50!

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Bread

I blag on about bread ad nauseam, but it’s really the lynchpin to our lifestyle.

We spend just $20 a month (if that) on flour and salt, which is enough to produce all of Small Man’s school lunches plus an average of twelves loaves of ciabatta a week for eating and sharing.  My original sourdough loaves cost us 65c each, but my ciabattas work out at just 37c a loaf. That’s a substantial saving compared to Italian woodfired bread at $5 a loaf – if we were to buy twelve ciabatta loaves a week, we would be saving over $2,500 a year by baking our own!  In practice though, we would stretch out four purchased loaves, so our savings are probably closer to $800 a year.

Again though, the bread making has never been about saving dollars (and these costs certainly don’t take electricity into account), but the difference to our bottom line has been both noticeable and significant.  And, like buying UHT milk, baking our own bread frees us from the supermarket.

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Specialist Suppliers

What is perhaps the most surprising outcome of our lifestyle is that because of all the other savings we make, we’re able to accommodate some very expensive foodie habits.  We indulge in Pepe Saya butter for spreading (we probably go through one wheel a month), I pay extra for both fair trade and origin chocolates, and we buy San Daniele prosciutto and Jamon at premium prices.  Even with these items included in our calculations, our food costs are still far less than they were five years ago.

It’s a lovely thing – we live very frugally compared to our peers,  but we never ever feel like we’re being deprived. And it’s nice to know there’s still room to move in our food budget – if we needed to cut our expenses even further, we could easily reduce our consumption of these “specialty” items.

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Shopping at markets and growing our own

Five years ago, we started shopping at Flemington Markets in Sydney. These are an offshoot of the commercial Growers Markets that operate very early on weekday mornings.  Every item there is a bargain – apples are just $20 for a 16kg box, large free range eggs are $7 for 30.  For a couple of years, this made a big impact on our budget.

And then we started our garden, and we no longer needed to buy eggs, or green vegetables. Now we go just once a month or so, to stock up on potatoes, onions, tomatoes and fruit.  If you don’t have a garden, markets of this ilk are a great resource – the produce will be weeks fresher than what’s available at retail outlets, and the prices are unbeatable. By contrast, organic farmer’s markets are a lovely place to wander, but most of the ones in Sydney are too rich for my pocket.

If you have space to grow your own herbs and vegetables, you’ll be amazed at how creative you’ll become at using homegrown produce. We will often go into the garden to see what we can pick, and then decide what we’re going to have for dinner.  And at the moment our yard is full of self-sown broccoli rabé, which will happily feed us a couple of meals a week over the coming months!

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Homemade foods

The list of things we make from scratch continues to grow, with each new food being painlessly integrated into our routine.  Some items have been dropped – for example, we no longer make our own passata, as we can’t seem to grow tomatoes in bulk, and we’ve now sourced a very reasonably priced bottled alternative.  Nor do we always make pasta at home, although we’re now confident of being able to do so quite easily – it just makes such a mess to clean up afterwards!

However, we make all our bread, Greek yoghurt, stock, vanilla extract, ice cream, pastry, cakes and jams.  Pete puts together his custom muesli blend once a month, and almost all our meals are homemade. It’s become a mindset – “how can we make this?” becomes the question asked, rather than “where can we buy it?”  And it’s very rewarding on all fronts – emotionally, physically and financially.

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Sorry for such a longwinded post – once I started, it was hard to stop.  But there you have it, a review of the past few years of our journey. Thanks for sharing it with us!